Okay, one the guys we hang out with has had a whole past of violence and a criminal record to back it up. At the moment he's clean of his past convictions and behavoir, but it wasnt until recently that me, and alot of other friends and people have noticed its starting to dawn back on him.
The other night when we were all out for drinks he was sort of just wasted and aggressive and we didnt take much notice until he starting playing up to people around him and trying to start something out of nothing. We stopped his attempts of violence and it took alot of us to calm him down and stop his aggressions. It's not only the knock up he started playing up with, he's also started using cocain and heroin drugs again and there's also been word around that he's sexually assaulted a girl he had a one off fling with.
It's gotten to the point where none of us are capable to stop him because he's pushing away to the point wher he only uses violence to communicate. During the day when he's sober he works and cant spare a minute for us to talk with him cause he basically doesnt care. Were more concern about the mess he's gunna get himself back into and the trouble hes gunna get involved in if he carries on this way and the efforts were putting in arnt helping. Is there any other way of getting help? His family such as older brothers and his father live out state and hes on his own out here. Its not just affecting us, its starting to pick up on my girlfriend who is refusing me to be around him after he drunkardly threw insults at her at an evening out. I spoke to him rationally about it because i knew it was the drink that caused himt to act so recklessly. Also family have become quite anxious about him.
Another thing is at the moment he's been dropped for raping a girl and he denies it. He states that she didnt say no or tell him to stop when it happened and that there was no violation or abuse involved in what happened. We dont know the girl who's involved, as she was just someone he met one night. None of us are set to believe anything at the moment but what he's getting into is serious.
What can we at least try to do here?
