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The problem is that i am possibly using her stuff as a means of getting incontact with her.

Background:

as much as it sucks, i just have this "feeling" that she will come back. the way that she looked at me the last time we spoke didn't match with what she was saying. she has been acting extremely weird during the breakup. she says extremely mean and rude things to me and then when i call her on it, she says that she never said them. She is nice one conversation and then mean during another. After being mean she'll wait a few days and then call to tell me that she is going to the store and that she hopes that i am having a great day. this erratic behavior coupled with the sudden demize of our 2.5 year relationship makes me believe that there is something emotionally that she cant handle , so she pushed me away.

they would have fit in her car...easily. She is not lazy either. She went through some emotional termoil and then broke up with me. She has some serious past issues to get over and i think that she is taking time fo get over them. Regardless, l love her very much and I hope that she finds what she is looking for in life. She deserves to be happy. The breakup wasnt about me it was about her and what she is trying to overcome.

We havent spoken for a month ever since she gave me a BS "closure" speech. i dont even think that she believed what she was saying. After she said that it would never work, she asked for her stuff again. I told her that she could get it now (we were at my house). She told me that there wasnt enough room in her car to take it all, so she would get it later. She ended it with a long hug, a kiss, and a "we'll talk soon, ok?". If it was really over wouldnt she just taken her stuff? .

She moved and i do not know where she lives (I never asked). her mom is out of town on an extended vacation. Do youthink that she just forgot that her crap is at my house? Update: I Saw her driving on the freeway. She drove behind my truck for a while and then paced my truck. i tried to not look over, but she honked and waved like we were still going out. This isn't normal, right?

Quick question.... My ex broke up with me about 5 months ago. She keeps on asking for her things, but she never follows through in getting them. I offered to leave them on the porch, drive the to her mother's, and mail them, but she always says that she'll get them later. She'll call just to tell me that she wants to get her stuff, but when I tell her ok, come and get it, she always dropps the subject. Why is she doing this?