I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 18 years and she cheated 10xs that I know of and thats probably just the tip of the iceburg.
I am a musician and brought a supposed-to-be friend home to work on music and to make long story short ,she wound-up sneeking around with him. He is a gospel organist that has a crack-problem ,living on a old 65 year old woman sexing her for a place to live.He gets paid for church service on Sunday and gets lost until Wed. comes back home broke without a dime.He has no drivers license,no car and no rel belief in God but gets paid from the church.The church fired him because he was a no-show for New Years service.I threw my ex out because I saw familiar patterns like new underware,hours in bathroom,phone hang-ups,late night trips etc. I found out later that she was quite involved with this loser.My friends tell me that I should be glad that she is gone and that I did the right thing,but I still am sad at times and I ask myself how some could throw-away 18 years for that type of loser. She demonstrated many times her love foe me in her cheating actions ,but i just kept taking her back hoping that she would change,silly-me
