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What if he was friend or you had talked to him a few times in the past? Would that change anything at all, or would it still be the same deal?

myself being shy, I find that I get discouraged easily and back off when the girl I am interested in isnt always warm and fuzzy towards me. Girls, if you like someone do you always act warm towards them and say hi and smile when you see them, or do you sometimes wait for the boy to initiate, and if they don't do you back off because you think he may not like you?

I just can't tell whether or not she likes me. I took her to junior prom last weekend, and before and during the dance she was fine, and we were flirting and it seemed like she was in to me. Then we go to an after party and she just sits there twiddling her thumbs, literally. She doenst really talk unless I talk to her, it really pissed me off. I think she may have been acting this way becuase she was the only girl in the room at the time, and can be pretty shy sometimes. My friend suggested that maybe she was waiting for me to make a move, as her two friends that she was there with were both in other rooms hooking up with their dates, but i dont know about this, as that isnt the best way to go about showing someone that you wanna hook up with them. Anyways, I decided I was just gonna stop sayin hi to her in the hallways and jus forget about her, but today she kept sayin hi to me. I dont know waht to do, and i like her a lot.

ok here's the deal. I like this girl a lot and I think she might be interested in me too but im not sure. we are both pretty shy so that is prolly why i cant tell. Anyways, we go to the same highschool and she is a year younger than me. Our groups of friends had hung out a few times since last year but i never really thought about her. Then one time one of my best friends was hangin out with her and her friends and said that she asked where I was and said that she wanted to become friends with me. So naturally, I started paying attention to her a little in school and noticed that whenever I walked by her in the hallway she would stare at me. Then I talked to her as she was walking by once and she blushed and smiled. So after that i thought i was on to something and i started talkin to her more and would sit with her sometimes during break and what not. I asked her to junior prom and she said yes right away and seemed enthusiastic. The thing that makes me nto sure if she likes me is that when she walks by a lot of the times now she will pretend not to notice me and also our relationship hasnt really progressed since we started talking so i don't know. This could be because we still havent done anything together on the weekends since we started talking so that could ahve something to do with it. I just dont know.