fire marshall

I've tried to talk to him, but he keeps running from me and I've tried emailing him, but he won't respond. I'll be moving to another country soon, so I was just trying to make amends. For "Ray", we're both in our early twenties, but I haven't been in a really serious relationship, but I have had platonic guyfriends, in the past, not a sexual relationship with them. I would say this is my second serious relationship, but the first was a long one. Him on the other hand, when mentioning females, he never called them girlfriends, but people he dated briefly, which now I wonder why it didn't last. He's very insecure and always needs some self assurance that he's adequate.

I was dating a guy for about five months, until it came to a point that there was a lot or conflict and arguing, which he initiated first. So I figured that was his way of saying that he wanted the relationship to end and was doing his best to turn me off and make me leave. I finally left when he yelled at me and said he didn't care what I did, whether I left or not, so I left without telling him, I just made myself invisible to him. After, about a month of distance, I ran into him one day and he was just furious when he saw me, went in a room and I just heard something slam or break. I didn't stick around to find out. Anyways, I wanted to extend an olive branch in hopes that we can be civil to each other, but every time we see each other, he's just nasty to me, won't even look me in the face, walks in another direction or if I say hello he's just saying it forcefully. Everytime I try to talk to him he gets red in the face and just runs somewhere and hide. It's like trying to catch a mouse who wants to find the nearest hole to get in. I want to know, why he's being so mean to me, when he was the one who seemed to be showing signs he didn't want me around. I just figured we needed to part ways, so I jumped ship. By all means I'm quite content to move on, but I was hoping we can at least still be friends.