gumball

thanks for replying, that was deep and definetely gives me something to think about. Like I said, I do deeply care about her, and know I would be happy spending the rest of my life with her, if it werent for the sex thing, and me desiring others. I wonder if a short break would help me to realize how much I would miss her, and re attract me to her.

I am so in love with my girlfriend of 4 years, she is everything to me, our relationship is great and i enjoy spending time with her. However, I dont sexually desire her anymore, or at least not as much as i did when we first started dating 4 years ago. I find myself always checking out women and wanting to sleep with other woman. My girlfriend and I still have sex, just not as much as we use too, and I dont desire it as much as i use too. I have been contemplating breaking up, but this is a hard thing to do, especially when I truly believe I could spend the rest of my life with this woman. What should I do, Is it time to call it quits.