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  1. Thank you guys! All of your responses are more than welcome and appreciated!! Btw I am going on after that and I realized I really ack trust and confidence on myself, thats why I was worring about him. Can you give any advice on any good source (book/course/audio/) to improve confidence and trust on yourself?? Thank you!
  2. He is the same guy and he insisted again on that home date tody, so I am calling him off. It looks very inappropriate for me.
  3. Ah, nobody wants us. What a curse. Hahah didn't mean to offend, but people in here without me saying anything about the appearance of guy assumed he was charming and I got attracted to him just because of that.
  4. if I propose smth to do outside and he agrees, is there any chance he was just testing the waters before and he may be a good guy, is there any possibility, or he will just fake like he like to go out? Thats the point I do not trust that much peoole, if he says ok to a date outside I will think oh he is just saying that but what he really wants was what he proposed at beginnung. Btw he isnt charming and Im not fond of supermodel guys, I may say he was smart and good talkative but not handsome.
  5. I am having some examples lately of guys who are perfect, and we have a perfect first date, converstion, laughs, etc. After that I go home excited thinking about how may tings advance, meanwhile their next move for a second date is inviting me at their home to watch a movie. Dont get this, it really dissapoints me as I thik that means just to have some casual fun. It is weird but it i not the first time it happened to me. After this I totally lost my trust on these guys, how can I build it back? It is funny but it is the third time happening nd they all seem great guys during first date...I just cut them out after this, but this way I am not getting anywhere. Maybe I should consider building trust continuing dating them and see wht hapoens. I am just very stubborn, I cut them out directly and I go really soon to conclusions.
  6. Yes same kanguage. He said next time I should plan. Maybe that was being polite. Maybe he was afraid of me being uninterested on him? He was very shy by the way. He told me he hasn't been dating from three years ago.
  7. Hey guys, he just send me a message asking me out. It is alright. Thanks to all
  8. Dont think that is lack of confidence or social skills. As he planned the first one with so much confidence, he said what he wanted to do and that was nice. He didnt seem antisocial
  9. The quedtion is for guys, when you are unineterested why would you let the plan on her? You just be direct and don't say anything. That is better right? I am very direct, and I do not text a word unless I mean it. And what type of game may this be? What is he trying to achieve? I am curious. Or he just doesnt want me to feel bad about him not liking me, so he comes up with this just to say something. Maybe he has had bad ex├▒eriences with other people who do not pay for a date? Maybe he means I need to pay this time? It is awkward but I just lost interest on him after those words.
  10. Hi. I am a 32 years woman and this guy is 34 yars. Sorry for mi english. We dated yesterday and that was very short date as he had some other plan after. But we enjoyed a good time there. After the date he told me he had fun on the date, that the next time I should plan date because it was my turn. I feel a bit weird, he didnt contacted me after a date, is he uninterested? He asked me tocplan date next time. What does that mean? Maybe he inst interested. I haven't written anything to him since. Should I write something. On first date he payed and I know that the nect time is my turn to pay, but why should he emphasize that? And we had fun on the date, but it was short. Is he wanting to meet me, need I plan a date for next time and invite him or it doesnt is necessary? Thank you. Sorry for my english
  11. Hwy everybody! I live in Europe and I would like to have any suggestion for career and personal growth. I have studied a technology field and I would like to find any project that can permit me be coauthor in any paper and present it in any conference. I have seen many sites but thay cost so much and they do not give you the opportunity to be coauthor with someone. I would like something for really unexperienced people in the research field who like to learn and cannot afford the expensive conferences. I can also work for that in a volunteering way notpaid. It is just so difficult to find aomething like this in Europe. Someone can help? My field is Informatics. Thanks!
  12. Sorry I never mentioned dating sites.... And never mentioned bored. Lonely is different from bored. To fight boriness I have friends, family, do things etc. But I thought I should give him a chance or two to understand better if I wanted him.
  13. Pls someone tells me how to say to a man that I don't want to be romatic with him after a couple of dates. I feel guilty cause I think I dated him cause I was lonely and I realised in the first date he wasnt the one. But I like him so much as a friend, and he is so sweet I dont wonna make him feel bad about spending money and time with me. Sorry I dont speak english well.
  14. No I am not comfortable. I just want to delete this part of my past or widh I could change it. I just feel obligated from conditions as you cant keep it hidden.
  15. Wiseman but at somw point in oir life he is going to ask about my previous experiences or relashionships right. So I think you cant keep it hidden from your significant other. Yes I am stressing over this cause it just sounds bad I havent had any experience up to now, he is going to think I haven't been desired. But actually I have. I just havent liked any ome of the chances I have had before.
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