Rowey

Very familiar actually, it seems as if they take it for granted that we will always be there and if we even take a slight interest in another girl thats a big issue .... what right do they have to control our lives ....I really do feel bitter about it now

I do think she is selfish when it comes to the intimacy of our relationship and I dont think it would hurt to desire sex a little more ..... I wonder if there are any girls on this forum that would give thier opinion

thought of that option and it is tempting however no mtter how many mistresses you have you will always want your main woman just as much as she wrings that little bell inside ..... I knew deep down that this would be a hard problem to crack .... appriciate the help though

I have argued the whats wrong with getting on your back for 20 minutes thing ... let me tell you with a girl with a strong personality it gets you in trouble they are of the mind that they are in control and they will do it when they want not when we say. As for sex when she is in the mood she is going for it 100% nurses outfits the lot until she orgasms then she loses interest by the looks of it she multiples and then thats her done until the next week which is a pain. She did try the doing it for the sake of it or offering hand or mouth relief to me but even that is to much for her these days

Ypu are right it shouldnt have come to this .... I have a high sex drive which makes it worse and she was aware of that I am prepared to compromise because I love her, however her compromise is once a week no seeings as there are 7 days a week, well and if I broch the subject she digs her heels in more we went to Egypt and didnt even snog for 4 days, she said that she knew that I was going to expect it on holidays so it put pressure on her. All I want is something to get her in the mod really, not looking hopeful is it?

wish it was that easy ... however maybe I am wrong and to demanding thats why I posted on here

Yeah unfortunately the bottom line is how you say it ... howver is this how life is or am I being unreasonable to want just that bit more??

I have thought of that and trust me I can be a bad boy when I want to be and do attract a fair bit of attention which she is aware of .... however it hasnt made a diiference she sticks by her "I dont feel like it" and thats it Realistcally I do love her deeply and would rather not throw her in the stingies. However I would love to have a solution drugs related if needs be. She has a strong personality and thats a nightmare but we gys just love them strong women dont we?

Apparently she has always had a low sex drive and in the beggining of our relationship it was not frequent it was perhaps 2-3 times a week instead of 1.... we do have quality sex if not quantity and trust me when I say I know what im doing and have the equipment to do it I have never had any complaints from anyone quite the opposite in fact I could most probably write books this is not bragging by the way as I am now faced with this problem ..... I have asked her about the attraction thing and she is very much in love with me its just she very rarely wants sex and no matter what I have been doing she is just not in the mood ... its getting her in the mood I need help on ... once she is in the mood its great

Hey guys thanks for your advise, which I am glad I received .. I can see the picture that is in your mind ........ But trust me I am very far from mundane and the flowers she get every 2 weeks are on different days once the Lillies she has die I pop in the flower shop and get some more she likes them and it makes her happy so I get them trust me it isnt on the same day or anything that regimental Spontanious ..... Well I took her to Egypt for a break the year last year we had a week in Rome and I took her to Vegas to get engaged, life in our home is never boring and realistically boredom is never a problem with us as we enjoy each other company and most of the time are laughing and joking .... when she comes home from work I have had romantic evenings set up for her candlelit dinners etc but she literally eats it we talk and laugh she then sits down relaxes, watches TV and then after 9:30pm gets tired and falls asleep. I have sat and talked about it with her and she abmits that she doesnt feel like it that much, and I dont want to keep on at her to often as it will become demanding and then end up even more of a problem, howver I dont want to just sit back and let it get less and less either. When we do have sex its greatand we both enjoy it and yes we do experiment try different things positions toys etc so thats not mundane either. It is a tough one guys I would love it if someone has the answer like I said a good aphrodisiac might work, im sure someone can help me

I have been with my fiancee for about a year and a half, but am becoming increasingly frustrated with her lack of sexual drive she would rather sit and read a magazine or watch TV anything at all rather than making love, we have sex about once a week once she orgasms she loses interest until the next 7 days or so ... we are both fairly attractive keep ourselfs in shape etc and I am not a selfish lover quite the opposite in fact I buy her flowers every fortnight make her food do the washing I am very attentive always telling her how beautiful she is, she is very loving in other ways always cuddling etc but when we do argue she just says that she hasnt got a high sex drive and never really has ...... What do I do mabout this issue just put up with it or does anyone know of some miracle cures, aphrodisiacs etc.