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You are right...I'm not completely giving it up...we have written each other a few e-mails these past couple of days...I did tell her not to call me, because it was hard talking to her on the phone..and she didn't need to hear the same thing over and over..she was only calling because I had asked to keep in touch, and she wanted that too...however, in her e-mail....she said she was impressed by the way I have handled myself...not being a jerk and all...that I have shown a lot of maturity....however, I don't know what else to do...except sit back, and see what happens...but at the same time, knowing that there is a chance she is getting with a mr. new...you are right about there had to be a bond with 3 years...but where did that bond go...I know things are getting challenging and confusing for her...having to move 2 hours away...and begin vet school..and having to find a place to live...and all...but she told me that it was going to happen, even if she didn't get into school...and you made a great response about there are millions of fish in the sea...but the fish you spent 3 years with is a special fish...thanks for the advice

You are right, I understand , it seems to make it slight easier to hear it from others...at this time, its so hard to think for yourself...its just hard to lose a best friend too...anyways...thanks for the reply, it helps, because I know that others have been through it, and they know more about it then me...its been two weeks today, and I'm doing a little better...I told her not to call any more...and maybe that'll help...and I'm sure mr. new is already around.....o well...ha...thanks again...

Well...I've not been one to try to get advice over the internet...but I'm desperate...well I was dating the love of my life for almost three years...then two weeks this coming monday...she calls me and says that we should not be together any more...I've tried to ask to see if it was anything that I have done...she said it has been nothing that I have done...however, she says that she does not love me any more....three year relationship...and doesn't love me any more...very hard to understand..but I'm trying...she's going to be leaving for professional school in august...a change in her life...I don't know if this has a lot to do with it or not...she tells me she does not want a relationship now...and that she has been fighting this for awhile...thereforeeeeeee lying about her feelings...ok...I didn't call her for awhile...and didn't get to talk to her for about 5 days until she finally called me...because she wants the time and space...the other day I ask her to meet...she says she has to go somewhere...so I get the bright idea...to show up at her house with some flowers...she pulls up with a guy that I do not like...she tells me that its not what I think...so I believe her..yea or na...because I know its over...but she says she is not over me...but how do I get over this...I really care about this girl a lot...just give her time and hope that she misses me when she leaves and is going to be about 2 hours away from everyone? or try to get over her...since she is already making new friends...after 2 weeks and not thinking completely about me any more..?I just don't know...someone help please...or attempt