girlfriend33

No I would not do that if I was single because I have a conscience, I don't think it is right, his wife probably doesn't even know that he is doing this behind her back. Married men that seek out cheap thrills are jerks, they have a wife - go home and play with her, maybe she would like it! They are only hurting themselves in the long run, she will find out one day. This is why I think men should be more open in the beginning because it effects the woman and himself in the long run.

I think men and women look at dating differently, women want attention and to feel that they are special to a man. A man just wants to get in your pants (most of the time). It's funny when I think about it, I have been in a relationship for 4 years now, and I get hit on more now than when I was single, they know I have a boyfriend and they still try to get in my pants. Even married men hit on me, I was offered $150.00 from a married man with 4 children, to show him my breasts and a kiss. Men are so stupid, obviously his wife loved him enough to have 4 children with him yet he is willing to spend their money on a cheap thrill. I didn't do it by the way. I believe in being loyal to the one I love. At my age if I was single in the dating world again, I think it would be hard to find a man that would be trustworthy, being a bartender I've seen how unloyal many men can be. Men should be upfront with their intentions to begin with, and not play games if they want a relationship to last, be truthful about everything so you get someone you will want to spend the rest of your life with.