Hi im new to the board and would really be gratefull for your advice and to share your sories with me.
I have been beliving my partner has been up tp no good for a while now for severl reasons. One i found a reciept in his coat pocket for a meal for two paid fo by cash which fit with the day he was away from the office. once he was late home from work he claims the normally 20 min journey took him 2 and a half hours because of traffic, i know this is not true because we live in the country and there are many roads h could have took to get out of the jam. He also has had stains in his underware and i found on my computer he had search up dogging sites in the location we live. Dogging is where poeple go to have sex in their cars where people can watch or poeple go to hook up with a stranger and have sex with them.
I have confronted him on two occasions and the first time he just cryed saying that he has not done anything and that he dont know how the reciept got in his pocket and that it was not his ect ect. He proclaimed how much he loved. The second time i asked him about searching up Dogging and he said he wasont him even got angry with me telling me i was f****** with his head and that tere was somthing wrong with me . Again he swore on our kids lives and said he would never ever cheat and said th stains in his underware were from self sex in bed.
The problem is i dont know when he could when he could have had self sex in bed as we retire together. there was no one else in the house at the time who could have typed in dogging and it was in with other things that i know he looked up. the stains in his underware fit with the date of the meal for two and the lateness home.
My problem is he sounded so convinceing when proclaiming his innocence, would he really sware on our kids lifes could he be innocent am i going mad, Please can you help with your views men and womens advice please, How far would the lies go to get out of this, your expreinces would be very helpfull thank you.
