billybob111

thanks for the reply and advice, they are both appreciated! william

just an update..... my ex contacted me aftesr 8 month and said she really wanted to see me. she came over, we were intimate, and she stayed with me for the weekend. the next weekend was the same, she stayed with me all weekend, and things were great. now she went back home (around 3 hours away) and is busy partying with her friends and other guys. i try to stay upbeat when im on the phone with her but i cant help but have a sinking feeling in my heart when i talk to her. it makes me feel terrible. what is she doing? what is wrong with me? any help would be great. william

the reality of the situation is that my current gf is much hotter/nicer than my last. my last one was emotionally abusive (im not a pansy, im just telling it like it is) and fickle. i guess you're right, im just addictive to my ex, i mean she was my first long term gf. maybe it's for the best. william

you're right, of course. every time she contacts me, my heart beats a million times a minute and i get all out of breath. its really weak and i hate myself for it. she's young and having fun in undergrad, and it's really pathetic that i even feel this way. i have never contacted her, always let her contact me. i feel as though if i block her from contacting me ill never see her again though. should i just block her?? william

My ex started seeing someone as soon as she went back to college. We were together for four years, and I still think about her every day. My ex and I had a rocky relationship, we bickered a lot, but I knew we adored each other. I haven't seen my ex since last september, it is now the end of february. I have moved on with another girl (girls really), however I still think about her all the time. Is this normal? I was her first sexual encounter and it really hurts me to think that she's doing this with someone else, even though I am with other girls also. She has contacted me many times over the internet, just for small talk, which really drives me insane also. I know if/ when I see her again im going to hurt. I'm currently in school so I'm busy all of the time, but any advice would be terrific. Even though my current gf is freaking smokin', I still cant get over my ex. Thoughts? william robert