Ok I think this girl on my softball team is gay but like i really don't know how to come out and ask her about it. because she don't know i'm gay or anything and me and her don't talk a lot or anything and i couldn't just be like hey r u gay bc i would be to scared she would tell the coach or something and then i would get in trouble or maybe get kicked off the team. sometimes she acts like she is and then sometimes she doesn't so i really can't tell.](*,) so could somebody please help me out here lol!