Nebulous

I do appreiciate the help you have provided, but I have also been called a liar on this forum, and I have done nothing but speak the truth in the search for answers. I have told my girlfriend there is still a chance she can get pregnant, for I have learned that sperm can live in the vagina for 5 days. She is completely aware, and has been the whole time. As far as the STD, a blood sample or semen sample would be fine with me, the thing that scares me is what I have heard from a friend. She said that her boyfriend had to have a q-tip inserted into his penis. Now that frightens me, either way, I am going either way, and somewhat believe she may have been lieing to me for some reason. I have discussed this with my Dad, and I will get tested within the next few days.

I have researched that there is no test for males, but that can't be true because I know of males who have been tested, how do they do it?

Once again, how do they test for HPV? Please stop the lecturing, I get it, just answer my questions.

Alright I need to straighten some lines here. First off, I am not asking for your opinion in what I did or did not tell her. I DID tell her about the risk and she was fully aware. She just saw it as not likely. As for the other girl I fingered, lets just be proud that was all I did. As far as getting tested, I will, I just haven't yet. How do they test males for HPV anyway? Regarding her possibility of being pregnant, she isn't. She had her period today. We did not have sex without a condom, we didn't even have sex period, the tip of my penis touched her vagina. I dont know if it went in or was on the top because she was on top of me, and we were kissing. Her vaginal fluids were on the top of my penis. I also, did not ejactulate in her, or around her but thats all irrelevant now, she isn't pregnant. As for my "lecture", I wasn't asking for a lecture, nor do I think I deserve one from people I don't even know. I just asked for a chance scale. Which I did receive. DBL was not being a friend in reply but an authority figure, which is exactly why I didn't want to discuss this with my parents, even though I told them about the possibility of me having an STD. So, as you can see, I didn't have unprotected sex. I didnt have sex period, because I do try to have a sense of maturity. As for her performing oral sex, I would like to discuss this. When I fingered this girl, I did not put my finger in her vagina but once. I also whipped it off till dry before I began masturbating, at which I used lotion. I know the possibility of the std is still there, but it seems unlikely to me, because it would have had to of gone through the skin and into the penis, or in the top while masturbating, which I dont find likely, because thats not how I do it. I told my girlfriend about all of this, and she was aware, and saw the possibility as low. I will get tested, I just want to know what to expect. Can anyone tell me how they do it? Just stop the lecturing, and answer my questions. Please.

thank you to Maggie, as for the other guy, at least I could read the book, and can spell correctly. She knew the risk she was taking, and so did I. I didnt ask for advice on my sexual life, just wanted to know if there was a probability numeral for the chance of the two. I think for now I will wait for her period, she will get it within the next week. As for the std, I will get tested.

Ok this post is not like any other, because I may possibly have 2 or 3 problems. Firstly, I was with this girl about 2 months ago. She knows for a fact she has the human papilloma virus, which is an STD. She said that she must have it inside her vagina, because they did not find it on the outside. I fingered her and I believe I stuck my finger in once. After she was done, I used a towel, whipped off my hand, and began masturbating. I did not wash them. I have not yet tested myself, and wonder as to how likely I have contracted the std. Now I am with another girl, and she performed oral sex, and I dont know if she will have it. Another thing involving this new girl is we were fooling around, and I might have put the head of my penis in or on the top of her vagina. All I know is that it was wet with vaginal fluids on the top. Whats the possibility of her being pregnant? I see the possibility of precum as high. Please answer all my questions. Thank you. ---------------------------------------------------------- "Darkness is the absense of light, not THE light." image removed