Hey everybody, I have a question. Although this question i guess is more toward the ladies of the forum, i'm open to support from all. I was with my ex for 4 years, she was my first. She was very very vocal in bed, very active, loved to give into every fetish that i had, seemingly couldn't go 20 min. without showing me some sign that she wanted me in bed. Well we broke up, and now i'm with a new girl..who is everything i want in a girl that i didn't have in my ex except for in bed it seems. She is alot less vocal, not as spontaneous, and seemingly shy about any fetishes. This makes me very withdrawn in bed and shy, with my ex it was very easy to tell she was enjoying sex, with my new gf, it's very hard for me. I only have fun in bed if i know my partner is enjoying it, so it's really hard for me to say that i actually enjoy sex with her...Any suggestions on how to help her come out of her shell?
