I am a 18 year old male and a senior in h.s. I have had sex twice.
The first time I ever kissed/ made out with a girl was last new years. I shook uncontrollably the whole time making out, and also I premature ejaculated with only makin out and me feeling her up. Its almost like American Pie all over again.
I thought this problem would go away being that it was my first time doing anything wtih a girl. I was wrong. Since then there has been about 3 other times when I have "creamed my pants". It has occurred once even after i lost my virginity. And only after marginal stimulation such as kissing and feeling up.
So during the end of summer (early August) I had sex. I had masturbated an hour or two before because I had a hunch that i wouldn't be able to last long. I was right. Even after masturbating and then having sex i could only last about 2 minutes or so. It was about the same for my second time also.
Present day, I still have my uncontrollable shaking problem when ever I start making out with a girl or getting seriouse with her. The problem is bad enought that I have had girls ask me why I am shaking. Also my premature ejactulation hasn't improved. It seems that I get an erection very easily. It will probably come to no supprise that when I masturbate I can't last long, onlyabout a minute. I learned to masturbate at a very young age ( age 8 or so) and have been doing it ever since just to get to the good feeling at the end, until about a year or two ago I realized that you want to last longer not shorter. I believe that this may have contributed to my problem. But either way I am still quite frustrated, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you
