I too, just got my first kiss, and we were in almost the exact same situation that you were. It was my first kiss, but he had kissed girls before, but for some reason was having trouble kissing me. I KNEW he wanted to, and I wanted him to.
At his birthday party a little after dark, his best friend took all his mates outside and entertained them, so we could be alone on his back porch. We sat and talked for about 45 minutes, holding hands and stuff. Then we were both kind of stiff from sitting down so we stood up. I was cold so I went over and hugged him. He held me and we swayed a little. We just sort of stayed like that for a little bit. Then, we were watching his friends play video games for a minute or two. Then he just says "Screw it, can I kiss you?" I wasnt gonna refuse! Then he pulled me away from the window we'd been looking it and started to kiss me. Lots of tongue, but from conversations we'd had earlier, I sort of expected that. At first, he wasn't really touching me, and I just had one arm around his neck, but we moved closer and stuff. We kissed for about 2 minutes, then sort of mutaully pulled away.
Amazingly, he said I was a really good kisser, despite lack of expierience. He was like... all mystified. I opened my eyes twice to see him, and he was so cute an into it.
Yeah, ok, I really went off on a tangemt there. My point is, don't sweat it too much, once you kiss for the first time its a lot easier. DO try to make it at least pretty good though, as she will remember her first for the rest of her life.
