ok..i have been dating this girl for years now....but things seemed to have got too routine. Then a few months back she was acting like she wasnt that attracted to me, even though though we always hung out. I began to think to myself that i wanted to be single again. I decided to be honest with her and tell her this..and tell her that i thought i might want a break from her for a while. Well what i meant was take a break, date someone else, yada yada....so she gave me like a two day break instead. She is extremely emotional and can really be dependant emotionally. so we hung out the other day and i didnt let anything happen...then the next day i did let things happen....then last night..i didnt know what i wanted...i even felt weird about the day before. Last night i also found out a few things that really bothered me...basically made it sound like she would get extremely depressed and maybe suicidal if i left.....and the weird part that scares me and wants me to get away. I dont think i want to be this serious. So..now i am confused...i love her....but....i still have feelings like i just want to be single and just worry about myself....any advice would be great..and yeah we have talked a lot..but it doesnt seem to solving anything