Thank you for your post. We have lived together for 4 years. It started to drop off probably around May 2022. When I mention pushing her the right direction, I mean with her starting to take care of herself physically, creating an environment where she can study to get back into school, me taking the initiative on trying to suggest things to become closer again. It seems she’s disinterested in all that. As I’m interpreting it as I’m the only one wanting to do all this stuff because I’m the only one putting effort in (in my eyes)