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  1. So. Initially law school was my plan but I enjoy numbers more than I do law. Though Public Admin is focused around legislation, my current role involves numbers. I want to become the best of the best at whatever I decide to focus on.
  2. Good evening. I’m a 27 yr old male with a bachelors, masters and pursing another masters. The ROI at this time is not matching up to my expectations. I’m happily engaged. All I’ve ever known was career and school. I’ve spent so much time doing this that that’s all I know. I’m currently in Northeast US and aspire to grow as a person. I’m unsure of what I should be doing while pursing other endeavors. What advice could you offer a 27 year old going through this?
  3. Good Evening. this is for the people that have years in experience. I’m confused on what the next steps are in growth. I’m 27 years hold, hold a bachelors in criminal Justice, a masters in public admin and currently pursing another masters in accounting. I have a decent paying job but want to set myself apart from the rest. I’m currently engaged and live in the Northeast of US. What should my next steps be while pursing my second masters.
  4. I’d prefer they didn’t. But it would take time for me to be ok with what I am getting you know.
  5. I agree so much with what u said about her doing her best. It kills me every-time. You and you husband agree with each other to revisit intimacy at another time. My fiancé doesn’t see how anything has changed in our relationship dynamic almost as if nothing is wrong.
  6. Thank you for your post. We have lived together for 4 years. It started to drop off probably around May 2022. When I mention pushing her the right direction, I mean with her starting to take care of herself physically, creating an environment where she can study to get back into school, me taking the initiative on trying to suggest things to become closer again. It seems she’s disinterested in all that. As I’m interpreting it as I’m the only one wanting to do all this stuff because I’m the only one putting effort in (in my eyes)
  7. Do you think more time apart will do the trick. Obviously staying together but activity wise.
  8. I get out quite often with friends. But I think finding something additional to a hobby would be awesome.
  9. I have recognized that I need a hobby quite some time ago but can’t find anything.
  10. So funny you mention this. I have friends but I am a grinding fool when it comes my career and school. I’m 27. Work and school is all I know. No breaks. I workout everyday. But I don’t have a hobby. I’ve been trying to find one but it appears everything I look into disinterest’s me. It’s so sad.
  11. If she remains the same. I’ll still want to but I’m trying to learn to deal with this now and cool off my high drive before things are finalized. Obviously in a healthy way.
  12. I’ll have to slow down but it’s a hard pill to swallow. I’m certain she wants to get married. 100% but I’m sour my needs kinda have to slow down. But this may be something that has to be done to maintain this relationship. What do you suggest a good plan of action is. I tend to get drastic and think not pursing her at all because of my needs not being met is the best answer. But I think there is other ways to get past it in a healthier way.
  13. I have a high drive. 2 times a week. Which I’m assuming is above average. But we used to 5 times a week.
  14. She was dismissed after Covid. I continued to push through my masters till completion. I’m not trying to hurt her here, you know. I’d walk the blade for my family. I love this girl and I’m 100 percent sure I want to marry her. I’ve taken every external factor off her plate to ensure that she succeeds. Am I asking for too much?
  15. Or is it me because I’m juggling all this at once and my expectation is that she’d be able to handle it too? Would that be a reasonable assumption?
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