I need some advice how to handle this situation with my boyfriend. Basically he thinks that I lie to him often about things that I do when we are not together. Let me just explain first that I love being with him and I am past the whole going out every night bar scene so, I rarely go out with my friends when I am not with him. It hurts so bad that he has the nerve to think that I lie to him and don't do and say what I tell him. Basically I am not the type to lie or leave out some details especially with the one I love and care so much about. We had a fight today about that because I told him I hate going out with my friends and he hears me on the phone making tenative plans with a friend to maybe go out. I wasn't going to be with him because he was with his children. Anyway, we ended things and I told him that if he thinks that I lie to him I am sorry and I will be more conscious of things in the future. We both left off mad and haven't spoken for the rest of the day. We have plans for the 4th and I don't know what to do. Do I bring it up again and say how upset I am that he things negative things about me (even though he is not the type to have those heart to heart talks) or do I just not say anything and try my best to enjoy our day and let it go and see what happens?
