Ok. I have been married for almost 20 years. I'm 43, my wife is 40. I have a MUCH higher sex drive than she does. We probably have sex about an average number of times...1-2 times a week, rarely 3. She likes it fine. I need much more. After maybe a half hour or so and that's it. Rarely 45 minutes, very rarely any more. She doesn't want more. ever. She orgasms. She gives me oral. She doesn't want oral...She is overweight, but not extremely so. I find that I look at porno alot. I have gone to strip clubs in the past. But I find that I want more intensity and passion....I have been unfaithful a few times (3?) over the years. One time events. But one in particular I think of often. She was thin, lithe and sexy. She answered a "sensual massage" ad I posted. We met. She was on the rebound. I massaged her nude. I touched her everywhere. She touched me. Like Bill, we "did not have sexual intercourse". But she was so uninhibited. I wonder what it would be like to be with someone as sexually ans sensually charged and "into it" as she was. I am not sexually fulfilled.
