I have a bf and he's 16 and I'm 13. I've heard people say that the only thing 16 year old wants is sex. But he's really protective. I've given him a hand job and he's fingered me, but we haven't gone all the way. I want to and I know he wants to, but I'm not on birth control pills and I won't be for at least a week. And I don't know if he just wants sex or actually likes me. I like him a lot, but I don't want to cause I can't tell if he's using me. Should I have sex with him or not?