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nope never called her.... i don't wanna push her into things like giving me her number and come accross like some weirdo. I see your point but im sure before we meet up we'll swap numbers and probably a photo or two. If only for practical reasons so i can call her if i get lost and she knows who she's looking for and vice versa!! I think we're both as genuine as each other really... she probably thinks im a bit mad wanting to come up and see her i dunno, but i have reassured her that its totally cool with me for it to only be for a friendly chat. Well i guess its up to some higher power to determine what happens next P.S. i didn't realise there was a section for cyber relationships....

yes i understand its a pretty big leap in faith meeting up with someone you've met over the net. I think we've chatted enough for her to know that im not some psycho... i guess as u say friends is the safest approach for her though, now i think about it its probably the most logical approach too if i put myself in her situation. I was definitely thinking of 'winging it' and seeing how it goes when we meet up and letting her 'lead the way' as you say. Maybe i just needed to hear some reassurance that im on the right track.... i've never truly even had a decent long-term relationship so i appeciate the relationship guidance. Oh well i guess i better learn to drive pretty sharpish or look at the prices for a rail card. Im determined to find some way to go up and see her... so long as we're both willing i'll find a way of making it happen. And we'll see how it goes from there. Thanks for the advice. P.S. No i don't look like Jabba the Hut... but i think its best we swap a pic or two of ourselves before we meet... just for reassurance both ends!

OK. First of all hi everyone. Second of all i hope the lady in question never visits these forums.... Anyway - basically i have got to know this girl on the net who i share a fair amount in common with and i think she's really cool to chat with and i like her a lot. So after chatting lots and become pretty good friends i came out with it and told her that i really like her. I asked her whether she wanted to meet up, but said you're probably going out with someone anyway, right? Well her reply was no... but its complicated. So i said OK well take as much time u want to sort it out and well still be friends and if u like meet up sometime. A few hours after this i guess she had some time to think about and we got chatting on the net again and she said: "you know you wanted to meet up? ..... well maybe we could, but only in a friendly way if u know what i mean". So i agreed and we said we'd chat about meeting up sometime soon. So here i am wondering if / wishing that she'll want to be more than just friends in time. What do any of u think will she ever want to? i know she finds me pretty funny and likes me as a friend and i just think she's really cool to chat with and like her personality. Anyway even if she doesn't want anything more i'd still like to meet up with her as a friend. opinions?