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Hi, I just wanted to post a thank you to the three awesome people that replied to my asking for help. Mermayd43- your answer just helped clarify what I did really know already and what he did tell me. You just put it even clearer and maturely so I could take deep breaths and read it calmly. I am one of those lucky people that know's my path so it was just hard to deal with the reality that the person I had fallen for and wanted to be apart of my path, didn't know his. Which brings me to thanking immensely the male's point to view from Swing fox. Wow, it really really helps to even just read how you type - because you have that male perspective that no matter how much us females try - when we are close to a male we just can't see how you guys think at all! THANKYOU so much - I forgot that when guys go through serious decisions in their lives they can only deal with one at a time! It is such a simple way, and should be an easy thing to remember but WOW, it's easy to forget and get clouded by what you think they need instead of remembering that only they can find out what they need! And in reply to your asking me in a joking way about being single, yes I am of course, not interested in jumping in to a relationship again for quite a while but I'd love to correspond with you through emails sharing ideas and thoughts and interests. Just what I need I think. And to Broken Hearted in Az, thanks for your advice girl, you sound like an excellent person that deserves way better than you're getting. I'll read your post and give you some help if I can! Sounds like this guy of yours needs to miss you and remember why you are the hot stuff - and if he won't - kick the boy to the kerb! Then let him catch you looking oh so fine and he won't be allowed to touch you!

I just want to ask all the guys out there in this cyber world one main question to try and help me understand my break up. Why do males always have a deep seeded problem that is so bad that it totally stuffs them up and they don't know what it is they just know it is not me and they have to be on their own to figure it out. Even though I am the best girlfriend they have EVER had, in everyway. And in no way is this a cover for a cheating or lying male, he loves me still but just can't be in a relationship with me anymore because of this 'thing' that he does not know what it is - but it has ruined all his past relationships and has now ruined this one - his best one. He is 27 years old. I guess this message may not make much sense but I want to put it out there anyway because I have nothing else now - except for me. I know that is a lot but I'd love someone to relate to who kind of understands. If anyone who reads this needs more info just let me know.