I agree with you Satch. Well, those who say "just move on" are simply stronger than us. We do not have the liberty of being that strong, and that's why it hurts, I guess. That's also why people like Blase Harris (author of How to Win Back Your Lover) come to rescue. I realise it's been 2 months since we broke up, and honestly I never really know what happened, since I don't think I did anything wrong.
It's comforting to hear that it's possible for feelings to come back, although each of us may never know whether or not we'll get our exes back. Only time will tell, unfortunately....