Foolish, This problem sounds familier to me. To make a long story short- I was way less interested in sex than my fiance, it wasn't because I wasn't attracted to her- she is very beautiful. I would try to make myself have sex, but sometimes "things wouldn't work"... it turned into a vicious circle- the more I thought she wanted it, the more problems I had. Anyway- I finally went to the doctor and asked him. He said it was very uncommon for someone my age to have difficulty- did some tests and found that my testosterone levels were way low--- Normal range is 300-900... mine were consistently in the low 100's. He put me on testesterone replacement and it almost instantly boosted my interest in sex. Many things can cause low testosterone- stress, working nights, poor health/physical condition, losing a bunch of weight, etc.
