Sherlock

Unfortunately you'll only learn when everything explodes in your face or when something like this happens to you.

Good luck with everything.

You're not ready for a serious relationship if you are so easily persuaded.

If it's not this engaged guy it will be the next guy you "have energy with".

You should end your relationship before you break this poor guys heart and scar him with serious insecurities...

You're only thinking about yourself right now. Maybe you should be single so you could enjoy your flings when they arise without repercussion.

What goes around comes around.

Dopestar.....the proof is there. Your gut feelings, her reactions and silence to the matter. Now she's leaving nasty messages and threatening to call the cops? Run away dude! She sounds crazy!

I know exactly how you feel and believe me, she is NEVER going to admit it to you. She sounds more humiliated at being caught than fixing things with you. So please don't wait around for a confession or more proof.

I know what it's like to try to get a gal to confess to something like this. I felt the same way you did. I felt as if I didn't know who this girl was that I spent 4 years of my life with. She was mean, manipulative and a compulsive liar.

You sound like you have a good handle on your life. Make the break ASAP and move on with your life. This is by far enough closure for you. Eventually this will all sink in with her once you're out of her life . If and when this happens stay strong and remember the misery she has just put you through.

How can you ever go back without trust? You will never believe her again. If she can lie so easy to your face she will never change.

lil_unique_me and dpressedone89, I don't believe UKgirl is asking for a diagnosis. She wants opinions and advice. There are a lot of people that really want to see if anyone else may be dealing with similar issues and this is the perfect place to find out.

UKgirl....There seems to be a manic side of you. You experience great highs but you didn't seem to express the extreme lows that are associated with being bi-polar. It's not a bad thing to look into counseling. Yet I feel they tend to slap negative labels on people that may be dealing with mild to situational depression.

One thing that can trigger this are the drugs you've been taking. Mainly acid!! Not a good idea to take a hallucinogen if you've been dealing with ANY mental issues. Same goes for the herbs too, unfortunately.

I would suggest for you to smoke weed in moderation and stay completely away from acid.

Look into counseling if you have it available and cut out the destructive habits.