Shyness_overwhelms

thank u again./... i dunno about the middleman...... at my age... its kinda meaningless.... but .. wouldnt hurt to try (or maybe it will).....should i keep trying (slow pace) if she turns me down?? not looking like im desperate though.......????!!

the strange thing is... i get really nervous even when i think about her... its weird.... i seriously have never had this feeling before.... i am kicking myself in the ass for not even talking to her..... .....dammit....i seriously need to overcome my fear.......

I would LOVE to break the ice myself, get her to actually know me from the start and viseversa...... the thing i could do is at least talk to her.... for school some ppl are going to minneapolis for a festival.... we are going to see cats, and i am most certain she will look beautiful in whatever she is wearing....i am hoping that i will be able to walk up to her introduce myself, tell her how good she looks... not like "you look HOT" but a more suttle way..... but i dont know how to start.... should i just "hi, im _____," shake her hand gently and ask her name(even though i already know it). how good would that be at a womans perspective??? its pretty bad i know, but i would like to know. she is the quiet type, just like me... she will talk to ppl she knows good and have laughs and such, **(i do not know all this from stalking, but just from my view)** geez.....i am most scared of her either turning me down or her friends being around( i hate that, it is a whole other story to ask someone out when friends are around... tried it once, didnt work too well...)i tend to studder, i probably will studder, and then get really embarrassed. i would be most comfiterable with just her and i alone.... which will be pretty dam hard to do..... sorry for all this..... im just in a huge ditch and cant climb out......what should i do???

thank you... i will look up on the topics..... the total main part of my contraversy is the thing that.... i know her from afar... i havnt really met her... how do i break the ice??? cuz the first impression is always the most important....i dont want her to look at me and i have a huge booger hanging or something **not like that would happen but,** you know what i mean....

Hi, this girl i saw for the first time in my life just a month ago, and ever sice i layed my eyes on her, i have been wanting more and more to ask her out, but the thing is.... i am way too shy.... she is in grade 11 and i have seen her talk to some people that have prettymuch the same personality as me... i know for a fact that we would be an excellent match. but i am too shy...... how do i make the first move??? everytime i see her, she always barely glances at people around me and looks right into my eyes .... even if there are people that are WAY more good looking than me standing right beside me.... what do i do???