Hi, Here's the deal. I am 16 and a male. Just recently I was making out pretty hard core with this girl. (this was the farthest i've gotten) All the time i was shaking and and then, out of nowhere i just ejactualted. I don't think she ever knew, because I just said it was late and that she should probably go. But even though it was quite embarrasing.
Also when i masturbate i can't last for more than a minute or two. This is fine when I'm by myself but i'm just afraid that I will be with somebody and I won't be able to last longer then a couple of minutes. I think part of the problem could be that i learned to masturbate a very young age and just did it to get the good feeling at the end, but now i realize that i want to last longer and can't. I'm very frusterated. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.