Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 Im jsut curious . . My ex and i broke up about 2 months ago almsot... and she still messeges me on MSN quite regulariyly but I never respond .. How true is it that girls and people are atracted to people they cant have and ignore them? Because even though i never message her .. she still messeges me thinking I will. Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 Lol, yeah, if you NEVER ever talk to her though she'll give up you have to do it once every while. Link to comment
Michelle03 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 I believe people ar often attracte dto what is a challange, or hard to get. So by u ignoring her it may be makin her want u more. But are u over her or do u want to get back together? U never mentioned that. But yes in my opinion it does make someone want u more "u always want what u cant have" Link to comment
Ddog187 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 Just like MetallicAguy said she will give up when you realizes theirs no point in messageing you. Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 ya but its been almost a month and a half of this going on .. and she still tries .. i have messeged her back rarely though .. She wsa the one who broke up with me though Link to comment
Ddog187 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 maybe she wants you back? It never hurts to reply to her. Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 ya but i dont think its that .. i dunno .. shes messeged me like this since the breakup .. we also have one of the same college courses .. and i dont sit with her anymore .. and she still messges me .. i dunno what to thik Link to comment
Ddog187 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 What about asking her why she messages you so much. And maybe talk over things if the signs are good thats if you want her back. Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 She probably wants to know if your just depressed over losing her or something. Who knows, that's why ya gotta hang out again. See if she's changed her mind about you. Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 Ya i dunno bout hanging out . .maybe ill message her back next time or somethign .. Do you girls get turned on by guys tht dont seem interested in you ?? Link to comment
Jaela Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 What exactly is she messaging you about? Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 i dunno .. cause i havent talked to her ..she just says stuff like hey .. hows it going .. and then i dont respond Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 then respond, unless your not interested. But if you are do it! Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 ya i dunno if theres a point though .. want her back . .but dunno if i wanna break NC and find that theres no rason for her messeges Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 it not normal for an ex to do this for this long? Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 She must REALLY have feelings for you if she's done it for a long time. Duh man, how could you not pick up on that? So yeah, she's still interested. Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 dunno if its that simple Metallic .. some girls will jsut be like that i think .. they doint want the relationship, but they want the friednship. The thing im confused about is whihc one she wants .. the relationship back .. or the Friendship. Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 adn i dont want the friendship casue i can only feel one way for her .. its eihter the relationship or nothing for me. Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 Well, you can talk to her, watch for her hints, that's pretty much the only way she's interested. Or if she isn't throwing 'em out then you can ask her out, she says no that's friends only of course. But hey, the only to know if she's interested or not, is to watch her body language around you in person, or ask her out. You pick. Link to comment
Michelle03 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 I think by what it sounds like she is still intereted in you. Why dont u just aske her if she wants to be with u again or not?? What do u have to lose, ur not with her right now, and not talking to her so u have nothing to lose. Just try talking to her when she messages u and see what she wants. And yes, i know it sounds dumb but girls really do like guys that ignore them or dont seem interested, its a challenge and us girls always seem to fall for that. So just talk to her and see what she wants, it sounds like shes still into u, go for it u have nothin to lose!!! Link to comment
Hope75 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 I am not a big fan of playing games and then wondering what the heck is going on.....why not just come and ask her how she is feeling about things? Really, what have you got to lose at this point? You are already broken up, so that's done, maybe you can talk and see where she stands, and who knows what will happen? Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 Im not really playing games . .i was just doing NC Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 Ok so heres all teh reasons I think she wants me back but im not sure .. 1) She continues to message me even though I dont respond 2) Shes kept all my emails that Ive sent her from when we were dating and she put them in a folder in her email account after the breakup 3) She still wheres the watch and necklace that i gave her 4) She still has my pictures in her school binder You think all these reasons area sure sign shes not over me . .or are some girls jsutliek that? Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 Obviously she still likes you, if she didn't why the hell would she keep the pictures and the emails?! lol, it's so obvious. If you want her go get her. Link to comment
Riles84 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 hehe .. metallic its not that ovious though .. Link to comment
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