Parties

[Caldus]

I've never been to a party before and I'm in my second year of college. I kind of feel like a loser even though I know I shouldn't. I never know where parties are around my area. A lot of people call me strange for never going to a party. I feel like I'm wasting away the what's supposed to be my fun years in life and I just can't seem to ever have fun anymore. Any suggestions?

[SKaterBassPLayer]

Hmmmmmm, im in a party college, so the parties over here are in the surrounding houses held by Fraternities and Sororities. Usually ALOT going on at one night

 

Parties are great, you DO NOT have to do anything such as drink or smoke even though most ppl do. When I am broke to drink I usually just go to socialize with friends and maybe flirt with chicks

 

Anyways just go with friends to a party and have fun.

[Caldus]

I don't have many friends on campus. Most of my friends live away from campus. I have no idea where the parties are around here. I try to socialize and meet people on campus but I can just never seem to really fit in with anyone. I feel like I'm missing out on so much.

[aireyc]

Join a club or something where you can socialize with people that have the same interests.

 

Chris

[SKaterBassPLayer]

waazzaaapppp, i just c ame back from a party lol im so drunk. meet walk around campus they ARE everywher!!!!!!!! Just look for people and ask wher da party at! thry all after the [party so just walk around and u can meet SOOOOOOOo many people out there after the party. Nobody would drive 5 miles for a party just yto get drunk, it is around you! just walk around and you will meet ppl and join em!!!!!

[Caldus]

I have met a lot of people but I'm never invited to any parties or even hear one going on anywhere. Maybe I'm just blind or something. I wish I could have some fun in life for once.

[antzca2000]

ive been to parties and ur not missing out on anything. Believe me ive had more fun playhing poker with three other friends then smelling drugs and sex at a party with 80 friends.

[Caldus]

Then why do so many people party all the time then? I feel like I'm missing out a lot of fun things in my life and I don't know why. I just see everyone here having such a great time every night. I'm too much of a 'good' guy. I study a lot and get real good grades in school and work on the weekends. I basically have no social life though even though I've tried meeting new people every week. Why is it so hard for me to have fun once in a while?

[antzca2000]

well i guess it all depends on your personality. Are you a shy or outgoing person? Do you do drugs? Do you like to get drunk? Do you enjoy meeting new people? Do you like spending your nights in a room full of people and filled with loud music??

[Caldus]

Well I'm kind of outgoing but not nearly as much as most people here. I don't like drugs and I have never gotten drunk. I just feel like I'm missing out on something but don't know what. It's like everyone knows what to do that is fun while I can never find something fun to do.

[antzca2000]

ask one of your friends to bring you along next time. Experience it yourself i guess.