Extremely shy guy needs help!!!!!!

[John14087]

I'm a junior at my high school and theres this girl I like a lot. I want to talk to her but I'm so shy I can't even think of going up to her and talking to her! Please someone is there any tried and true method of breaking the ice? Please help!!!!!!

[sidehop]

Honestly, think of her as your friend...another friend you always talk to. Find something that catches your attention and compliment her and break the ice. You don't have to impress her. Don't focus on that. If you can just come up with a good subject to start talking you're on your way Just be sincere and not cheesy

[SunnyScott]

Strike up a conversation with her about classes, teachers. She'll kind of get the clue. Then, ask her more about personal stuff like what she wants to major in.

 

There are no simple rules. Just be yourself. Work up the courage to talk to her. Most girls don't like phonies. I remember this one shy guy who liked me in high school. We both were shy, so the conversation did not go anymore. Wish it did though.

 

So yeah, talk to her about what her goals are. That's showing that you are personally interested in her. Just let the conversation flow from there.