Xmas Question

[ilovethatgirl]

Hello all, it's your old pal ilovethatgirl back with yet MORE questions.

 

So the girl I like (most of you know the one I mean, the Gr9), when I asked what she wanted for Xmas, said I really didn't have to and that she wasn't comfortable with people buying her things. Soooo I have a few options available to me, and I need to know which course of action I should follow:

 

1) Get her something anyways

 

2) Get her something small (just for an example, chocolate)

 

3) Don't get her anything

 

Soooo... thoughts?

[Momene]

Buy her this:

 

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It's an ideal present for the person you don't know what to buy and it'll help me clear my debts as well.

 

Thanks!

[LE DHUY NHUT]

Nothing.....unless she's your girl.Or your friend otherwise nothing if it's a girl you're tying to get.

[ilovethatgirl]

I am trying to get her (and she knows it!) but we're still friends.

[Considerate Empath]

If you get her something, she'll just feel bad because she didn't get you anything and thus if you give her something - it won't really make much of a difference of her opinion of you, nor is it likely to make her very happy.

 

If I were in your position - I'd get her some chocolates or something to give her only if she gives you something first. If she doesn't - you got some comfort-chocolates to give yourself for christmas

 

 

//C.E.

[MeganBug]

I say get her chocolates or something small. I tell people all the time not to get me anything. If someone got me a big present after I told them that, I wouldn't be mad at them, but it would put me in an awkquard situation because I would feel needed to get them something back. If they got me nothing, no harm done, yet, if I told someone to not get me anything and they got me chocolate, a homemade gift, or something under about $8, it would be nice and wouldn't feel "required" to get them something, because it would be small enough to really count as a major present.

[ilovethatgirl]

Thanks Megan and Everybody Else of course!

 

I thought that the small gift was the best course of action but really wasn't sure... really all I want to do is surprise her and make her happy.

[lost_dreamer]

If you are trying to get her, get her something thoughtful. Find out what she likes beforehand and purchase/make something relevant to her that you think nobody else would think of.

[lana111]

if you think she is being honest, dont get her anything. i am the same way. i dont feel comfortable accepting gifts and i would def not want me new bf to spend any money on me or go out of his way. if you feel weird about getting her nothing, buy a card and write something sweet in it!

[ilovethatgirl]

Lol well we joked about me giving her a facebook present :S

[Momene]

My daughter (17) has been going out with a new boyfriend for a month. It is his birthday tomorrow and she bought him a Nirvana T-shirt.

 

Here's a good "can't think what to get him/her" present:

 

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