How do you want it?

[brokenheart101]

Girls/ladies:

 

I have a little survey.

 

Would you prefer someone to ask you out in person or through the phone (text messaging, etc.)?

 

If the guy, who likes you, wants to call you, would you answer it (I know this sounds rediculous, but I was asking someone, if i could call her, she didn't say anything back to me or reply to my messages)?

 

BOTH GUYS AND GIRLS:

 

What do you think are the prosand cons of asking someone through the phone (text messaging), Being intimate with someone through the phone (Personally, I don't see any difference, it's still you talking but your face is just hidden from the person you're talking to) ?

[haunted_butterfly_babe]

look personally i think if u luv her u should ask her out in person! if she says no shes not worth it! and if she says yes and u do go out dont toungue her!!!! give her a peck on the cheek it shows ur not a user!!!!

and if u ask her out on the phone be intimate it shows ur confident! trust me on this one a guy used that on me and im still with him!

hope i helped[/b]

[Cid]

Ok first I think that in person is better but that is just me. Over the phone to cold and you cant see there reactions. Con you cat see them, Con it is easer for them to lie to you, Pro it is easyer to do if shy.

[beagle]

Got to agree that in person is better... it's more sincere for a start.

 

But I don't really know you so it's your choice - maybe you feel you could do a better job over the phone?

 

Whatever though, and however you feel you have to do it, ask the girl!

 

good luck