rigguy

classic...... brings out memories, thanks for the bump

listen to master yoda^^, my young friend. lol

Thats the right approach kid, always think positive. Sounds like you have much to be positive about, need noone to be happy. Good luck to you.

Take it easy brotha, sometime life is a b***h. Read thru your other threat and got to say could have wrote that myself, same time last year. Chances are your ex checked out well before this went down. You'll be fine bro, anxiety will subside; eating and sleeping will get better with time; self respect will no doubt follow. Do ask specific questions about all those things, some knowledgeable people on this forum. Good luck, Ruggy

Living of selling presents I've given you, very classy. Hope life will teach you a lesson one of these days. Glad you live and well...

Happy break up anniversary ex, cheers

Can't believe I still feel this way about you, after 11 months and a good 6 months of NC. Jeez.. Hope you have a good bday in a couple days.

I'm glad that makes you smile hellodoe!

 

And Jelly -- all those 5 points relate to my situation as well! I hate when the dumper says "you should get a girlfriend" or "you will find someone better than me" -- they're obviously feeling guilty for something. = \

 

Going to the gym helps! I started doing recently and it makes me feel great! (

Beats "it's not me it's you" approach many dumpers take.

Seening many old name latetly, here's my update. Something like 9 months post break up and a good 5 months of NC. Not a slight change in how I feel, congrads you did quite a number on me. Do wish your new guy a better luck, cheers...Riggy

Wow, I am so unaffected from hearing that you are in relationship surprised me. Been many months of NC but wow.

Hmm, for the first time I realized that you actually enjoyed hurting me. Payback? for what for not expressing my love toward you as you wanted me to or for being jealous way back when. Anyways hope you realize one day how much pain you caused me, you selfish a$$. You disposed of me once you got everything you wanted from me, which I refuse to wish upon yourself. Good luck

Get out of my head you lying piece of trash

Anna, your new bf is a b$$tch. Granted he is 10 years older but he would not last 5 mins up here. If I didnt make him my b$$tch someone else would, haha. What a shame...

Congrats honey, feel embarrassed by my own replacement. Your new bf is such a loser and biggest douche, geez

Hi honey, I know you aren't coming back, you made it clear. Though my mind still play tricks on me and makes me think you may.

Who the f do you think you are, giving me lectures, f you. I won't tolerate this superior attitude, f off. I did not want to go into that and did not initiate this. Who are you telling this me or yourself.

In a bad place at the moment and would not want to talk to you right now. May be to understand how you could leave all those years and go to another man so easily. Ahh, I have got to see you for who you are, you used everything I had to offer, when I could no longer offer anymore you kicked me to the curb. You know me, can't hold a grudge so no hard feelings.

Had a dream about you last night and can't even remember it anymore. That is awesome

HD, keep working on yourself, that is all you can do right now. Don't think this new guy is anything you need to worry about. It will be dead just as fast as it came into play. Stick with the plan man. Cheering for you buddy.

Day 7,

Broke a few weeks of NC last Friday with an email, my head was about to explode, I guess had a boil over incident. Anyway, it was a whole a lot of rent/nothing and I did not expect an answer. Thought no harm done to healing, considered it a turning point and I can finally accept it. Well, got reply today thanking me for a nice letter and small chit chat... * * * ???

Maybe it's the moon. I felt like you did rigguy, about to explode unless I talked to him. It calmed me down but at what cost?

Well, although I did regret contacting her, it was not about her anymore. Just needed to release some feelings which calm me down too. I have no delusion of getting her back and I am certain she will not write back, no damage done to my healing. It was all about me this time. Hope it did not set you back too much LillyLooWho.

Seems there are a lot of us starting again at day 1!

Noticed that too. Personally, my head was about to explode yesterday morning and I sent her an email, regretted it immediately. Had a great busy week too. Don't expect a reply.

I did a terrible thing, hypocritical but.. eh.. i'm only human

What did you do??

Hey guys, just thought I would get your opinion. Saw my ex a couple days ago at a bar, she was focused on texting or something and I decided to walk by. Thing is she is about 1000 km away and I was on business at that city. I know she did not see me, should I have said hi or it doesn't matter if she never saw me.

2 months plus some days my mind is so inquisitive about what she is doing, i cant help but wonder if she ever thinks of me like she said she would. i feel like total nothing to her. i set up another internet profile but i dont think its a good idea, i dont feel ready at all im just doing it purely for a confidence boost since ive had it hammered. i dont know why i cant let go, she just meant so much to me. id give anything to have it all back.

Hey buddy sorry you are having one of those days. Questining whether you made the right decision or did not do something, everyone is going through this, I think. As I recall your ex jumped into a relationship shortly after the break so NC was certainly the right decision. Man you gatta go at yourown pace, don't want to be done with it, don't. It is all up to you at this point. Personally, I did not know how much she meant to me until I lost it all about 3 months ago. So you are not along at that dude. My world and my confidence went down with it, only now I am scraping myself off the ground. Keep it up man, cheers.

Thank you Nature, guess I am having a lapse of judgement. I wish you luck as well.