hello, i am getting back to you on messaging. My boyfriend would not take the picture down, so i decided i'd be the big dog. He agreed to reframe the ex's (her name is Sharyn Jean, she is white trash) rose and make it smaller. now mine hangs proudly (and largely) above the mantle. i decided it wasnt' that big of a deal, although, he's a trained photographer and brilliant artist, this made me a little nervous on picture day. in my country (japan), anus anything is very taboo, but i see americans have no problem withanything at all! no shame, i dunno if that means classless or not!