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do it with meaning...don't just do it because you can...but because you want to and because you value her (and make sure she can feel it in the kiss)... try turning your head to the side a little and going in for it...kiss her lightly and make sure your lips are nice and soft (and that your kiss is the same)... i'd agree with the beautiful comment thing from swingfox...but something i like to hear more than that i'm beautiful is that i'm incredible or amazing...

i would say try starting with holding her hand or just cuddling with her...something really cute that my bf did when i was in high school was this... he was giving me a hug and then just lightly put his hand under my chin and lifted it up...and gave me a nice soft kiss...no tongue or anything..just a kiss.. i would say...that if you get far enough to get a kiss and she seems to enjoy what's happening...then go for it... kiss her normally...then on the next one open your mouth a little...then try it with a little bit of tongue...just go slow and smooth and you should be good to go...and never slobber too much or try to taste what she had for breakfast...

i totally agree on the whole "little by little" thing...another good thing to do...is to just do what she's doing....if you haven't really had much kissing experience and you know your partner has had more...just sort of mimic what they're doing...that always seems to work... oh! and don't have a stiff tongue! keep it soft and squishy