richmonder80

he sounds like a winner. he will leave his kids and wife for you, im sure. But what makes you think he wouldn't do that to you? or has other girls he is banging?

The lyrics are very meaningful. Helped me get through a very tough time. Just wanted to share so that it can help others

I'm so tired of being here

Suppressed by all my childish fears

And if you have to leave

I wish that you would just leave

'Cause your presense still lingers here

And it won't leave me alone

These wounds won't seem to heal

This pain is just too real

There's just too much that time cannot erase

When you cried I'd wipe away all of your tears

When you'd scream I'd fight away all of your fears

And I held your hand through all of these years

But you still have

All of me

You used to captivate me

By your resonating light

Now I'm bound by the life you left behind

Your face it haunts

My once pleasant dreams

Your voice it chased away

All the sanity in me

These wounds won't seem to heal

This pain is just too real

There's just too much that time cannot erase

When you cried I'd wipe away all of your tears

When you'd scream I'd fight away all of your fears

And I held your hand through all of these years

But you still have

All of me

I've tried so hard to tell myself that you're gone

But though you're still with me

I've been alone all along

When you cried I'd wipe away all of your tears

When you'd scream I'd fight away all of your fears

And I held your hand through all of these years

But you still have

All of me

--Evanescence

it is sick.

Instead of wondering and second guessing yourself that you made a wrong decision, why don't you try to improve your marriage??? I don't understand!! NO ONE IS PERFECT! Go to counseling and express what is lacking in your marriage and see if you could improve it. It sounds too me he is great in all parts but lack sexual chemistry...is it just his looks? his size? frequency of encounter? What is it? Why do people give up so easily in marriage? Give it a chance, no marriage is perfect, you have to work at it. Do you think the next guy you meet is going to be better??

Go to counseling and dont be a coward in taking the easy way out. If you really do love him and sex is the only lacking aspect, your marriage can work.

Well, I was 23 when I met my husband, who was 40 at the time. It is now 25 years later. I am telling you, the age difference will catch up with you. I am now 48 and still ready to party and have a "roll in the hay," all he wants to do is watch tv and nap. He is retired and 65 years old. Things may be wonderful for you right now, but keep in mind what will happen eventually. Don't get me wrong, we had a great time for the first 23 years of our relationship, but now I feel trapped and have no life.

And they say "AGE DOESN'T MATTER" BS. Age does matter. 3 to 5 years is not a big deal...but when you approach 10 it does. There is a logic to marrying someone "around" your age group and that is to grow old TOGETHER! Not you will grow older while he or she gets old period. Older men/women marrying significantly younger man or woman are mostly for ego boost for the older person.