alseka

It is not just sex that I am looking for...Sex would be great, but there are other, very handy alternatives... I would like to connect with someone, but I find it is more difficult when you don't know where to look... I have plenty of friends and meet people on a regular basis, but no one interests me romantically. It would be easier if I could narrow it down some, but I'm way more interested in personality than looks, and there are a ton of interesting people ou there... i just wish there was some way to tell! My out friends have no doubt, and if my straight friends have doubt, they aren't telling me!.... Or maybe we are all just lying to ourselves...

So here is my problem... I am lost in the middle. I am sort of ambiguous, sexually. I've had experiences in the past (way too young) with both men and women, and now my fantasies are a combination of both. I've been waiting for another experience with someone I care about, but not leaning one way or the other makes it difficult. I am open to new experiences, but don't know how to start, and make myself available to them. Any suggestions? [/b]