It is not just sex that I am looking for...Sex would be great, but there are other, very handy alternatives... I would like to connect with someone, but I find it is more difficult when you don't know where to look... I have plenty of friends and meet people on a regular basis, but no one interests me romantically. It would be easier if I could narrow it down some, but I'm way more interested in personality than looks, and there are a ton of interesting people ou there... i just wish there was some way to tell! My out friends have no doubt, and if my straight friends have doubt, they aren't telling me!.... Or maybe we are all just lying to ourselves...