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I got tested last week and have no SDT. Is it valid to be a better husband and hide this secret from her ? Now I know I love her more the ever

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I have cheated and I am into remorse

No pain is compared to remorse

Once you cheat all seem to be very good, but after it, when the guilt comes,

you wanna die

Mustache

So on 1995, you felt you were getting cheated on by her, why didn't you at confront her about it?? Either way, cheated on not, it would still not qualify you to cheat back. Remember, two wrongs don't make a right.

 

But what I'm wondering the most is how were you able to keep the affair for 2 years (that's very long) and your wife never even suspecting it, most would get caught very fast.

Because I didnt have an affair with a only girl

I have had some girls on my travels

Nobody besides me knows that but it hurts me even more

I thought I could only be crazy to cheat on her

Now I have no choose. Eighter confesser her or keep this terrrible secret that is driving me crazy

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>The emotional things that get to us like seeing her water bowl, her bed...

Yes, looking her objects can sure cause pain and it happened to me too

But as it's not your guilt. So it is a healthy feeling of a person who is able to love a pet

Believe me, time will delete this pain

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Hi fellows

I am 39 and my wife is 49, living together for 18 years. In 1995 I felt

cheated on by her, in 2004 I started to cheat as a revenge, in 2006 stopped

cheating because I found out I was wrong.Now I am feeling strong remorse and regret.

This remorse is killing me and it's hard to look on her eyes

Confessing her would lead to terrible consequences

I wanna be faithful and good again, but I can not deal with this pain

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Dear guz

I lost a pet 5 years ago, she was pregnant and was killed by a thief

All I can tell you is that I suffered a lot, but time deteled this pain from my mind

The worst pain and hard to deal with is the remorse by the things that we caused

And I am having a terrrivel pain right now for things I did in this last years

and I will post it in a new topic

So stay calm that time will set you free for this pain because it's not cause by guilt

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