Thanks mermayd,
Everything that you said is exactly right and is what I have been thinking, it is quite difficult though. She is exactly like you say you were - looked and acted 20+. She has a great personality, and looks too... I mean I really do like her, you know that good feeling when you connect with someone, I have that!... and would love to see her again.
I haven't got into the drama side of things yet as we aren't actually seeing eachother yet. We have only called eachother, although as I said, she wants to see me again. To be honest I would love to see her!
Bit of a soap opera I know!
Keep the advice coming!