Morning_dew

I think you seriously need to distant yourself from someone who is so violent.

Its been a while since the guy spoke to me. Right now, Im undergoing therapy to get that psychological shock "out of my system". No thanks to that " ".

Thank you people for your support.

The thing is, this guy contacts me occasionally, asking for sexual favours. I think he's a cheater who's just looking to see if I cud give him some "fix".

It's okay. The thing is he wasn't serious with me to begin with. At the end of the day, he and I both know it's his loss. He wasn't looking for a serious relationship with me, but he knows that he was lucky to have had me. That is all I can say.

He doesn't seem to let me go. I dont know what the heck is wrong with him.

ok something scary happened last night. He msged me on msn asking me weird questions and saying how Im the crazy one, and how he really likes me but I'm just crazy. I was so scared i didnt know what to do. For some reason I cant seem to delete him off my msn list.

I don't know if she's purposely making things to have you dump her. I think you should try and talk to her first. As for the dumping, I would rather dump a guy than to have him dump me. It's about saving my ego.

I went through something similar. Just get rid of that guy and make sure he knows its his loss. Never talk to him ever again, and you dont need to worry what he'll say about you to other people because they will eventually find out what type of idiot he is.

True, I still think about him. Sometimes I ponder what had gone wrong, but then again, he had been quite defensive even at our initial correspondence. For some reason, I want to be with him again (dont wry ppl, Im not planning to contact him). But I dont know why I still want to talk to him. I'd hate to say this but I hope that he's still obsessing about me. I know he still reads my msn nicknames. Somehow, I hope he's obssessed about me. I remember how he said he's kept the note I wrote him. I hope he still reads it. For some reason, I still think about him. Kinda stupid really.

Thank you, people, for the support. I hope I willl totally forget about him soon.

I'm still a lil bit upset at that guy. Just a bit of anger. The thing is, he's on my msn list. He blocked me, but he still spies on me to see what Ive been writing on my nickname. Moron.

Both of you need to stop hitting each other.

Get lots of counselling and help. Here's a hug (})

Get rid of her immediately and call the authorities. Don't think about anything else. She's dangerous.

Lots of anger in here. No hitting please. Just dump him.

yea thats true. I cant help him cuz he's not even aware of his behaviour. That's too bad oh well, God bless all poor souls.

You are right. I am better off without him. He matches 99% of the description of a "loser" whcih Ive previously read on this site. I know he's abusive. Part of me still feels upset that he mistreated me that way although he knew that he was lucky to have had me. I don't understand how someone would know that he's lucky to have me and still mistreat me. It's strange. I can't say that I loved him, but I did like him. Right now, I'm just disappointed that all of this happened.

Just not happy... I did like him

This guy is clearly undeserving of ur care. Let him know u don't need him nor want him around. Even the word "undeserving" is a euphemism for how I truly want to describe this person.

this girl sounds abusive. how unfortunate.

Well, the thing is hes physically abusive, but there appears to be a bond between you two. I suggest that he seek medical attention immediately for his behaviour. Hopefully, things will work out permanently from there.

I think that her age can potentially put u at legal risk if you decide to date her now. I think you should be patient and wait for two more years at least.

that guy needs to see a medical professional. U were lucky he hit a moment of realization and let u go.

The guy is a selfish jack. he wants you to please him and he doesn't put ur feelings into consideration. What a nut.