shiningstar

how long have you two been broken up for? i think you might have hope, but take it really slow. some people do get back together and are able to work things out. just if you decide to do this, stay away from having sex with him until you know for sure.

my guy is just really easy to talk to. and i love good eye contact. he always looks me in the eyes when i'm talking to him. he can turn a boring day into a fun day. we can have fun doing nothing at all.

that is so sweet i love these kind of stories.

ok, alot of people are going to say stick to NC. but i want to ask you a few questions. has he called you since the breakup? or are you the one calling him? the main thing is to not be to pushy and remember that you did have issues that brought you to the break up.

ok, if you really want to see him again and be absolutely sure. i would call and say it was really nice seeing you and thankyou for giving me back my things. i was just wondering if you would like to stay in touch?

just curious, what is it that made you fall in love with your gf/bf or s/o? was it looks or personality? for me i liked the way he approached me, and i liked the way he asked me out. it was funny, i love funny guys.

honestly he sounds like a decent guy. he didn't start anything with you when you went to his place. and he made it pleasant. i think the guy still cares for you. but it may not mean that he wants to get back together with you. what are you hoping for?

darkblue, yes for sure

yes i can understand that. i just want to be able to think about it a little more. so i guess i will consider what he wants and accept the ring and engagement.

i couldn't imagine life without him. i just feel like i'm being pushed into something that i'm not ready for. we have lived together for almost two years and we get along really good but my track record on marriages is really bad. it's not all my fault that both my marriages went bad. but when a relationship goes bad it really hurts. marriage is almost like a curse to me. it's a very scary thing.

hello, I met this guy a year after my second divorce. We have known each other for close to 4 years. On x-mas day he gave me a engagement ring and asked me to marry him. I told myself after my second divorce I would never marry again. Because I cam to the conclusion that marriage isn't for me. I do love this guy alot and he says if I don't coomit to the relationship that it will be over. He could be the one and then again he might not be. How do i know for sure?