yeah, I am back, see I thought he wanted to persue others too,so I asked him and he said no, infact he said that he wanted me to block out a week in november for us to go away together..... but until then he still needs a little more space so he can stop smoking ,drinking,and so he can work out and feel better about himself... Also he went to a party this last weekend with people that all know me and they all gave him grief for not bringing me there...... I want to give him space,but for how long and under what conditions.... He also does not look at us as broke up but rather. just taking a break......