heythere1234

Ok, then maybe you two can salvage this, just don't act too Platonic--its the kiss of death, lol.

Bottom line, he needs to get to the point and ask her out now before it's too late.

Agreed!! Always a good idea!

I'm not trying to make you feel worse, but I think you've (well both of you) been kind of odd about this situation. She was flirting with you, you didn't ask her out. You need to ask her out, or she'll think you're not interested and put you in the friend category. I don't know it was weird her talking about that other guy but it may have been a desperate attempt to get you to take action. It may be too late. Try not to be too moody with women, just tell her you're not in a good mood and you'll talk to her later.

In your case you should let this drop you will most likely feel much better having done so. Sometimes it's the best thing to do, but here I don't think it is.

I've got a pretty stable job that I worked very hard for. My situation is kind of backwards. My boss is a really nice guy and we get along great together, even play golf. He's a standup guy. On the otherhand certain other people and just certain dynamics do tend to piss me off though. Oh, well, I guess that's why it's called "work" and not "fun".

Cute hamster!! Well I wouldn't know how to respond if someone was asking me something so personal via text message. It's not really the best medium for that type of conversation. You should maybe ask her about the message next time you're on the phone with her or see her in person. Don't get too deep though. Just let her know you're wondering how things are going for her.

Yep, you're right.

K-I skimmed through and here is your answer. she definitely either

A) Likes you and is waiting for you to stop dragging your slow *ss heels and ask her out and show some interest already!

OR

B) Thinks you're cute but doesn't really like you that much, but does like having attention, even from guys she doesn't intend to progress further with, and is thereforeeee directly and intentionally leading you on.

Let us know which it is!

It could be -women do that you know. Need more info, maybe I'll read through this.

I would be teasing the guy, making fun of him, poking, slapping, pushing him, stealing things from him, making fun of his clothes or hair. All in a good natured way of course, not in a mean way. Oh, yes and I've also thrown things at men who I like. Seems to get their attention quite succinctly.

If I didn't like him and he liked me I'd probably be trying to avoid him like the plague.

Hmmm I just read the first post, flakeyness is not ok with me. movin on...

he might be flirting, the staring thing could be flirting or like you suggested he could just be playing with you, stringing you along, it's hard to say. Need more info.

Ok, newphillyguy, its so obvious. (ok, maybe it's not that obvious). But she is trying to light a fire under your backside so you'll ask her out! Step to it!

Man has this thread gone into the toilet...LOL

Hey now--Can I help it if incessant whining turns me on?

I am sorry I only date down to earth girls not space cadets!

 

understandable!

Like one of them things on the Jetsons, cool!

 

yep, just like that!

Get a room then.

no doubt there's plenty enough of that here!

Right, but not if they're treating her like a goddess and their own gf like nothing, that's not exactly good either.

the heartless sarcastic answer I would expect back

Who's being sarcastic?--whining turns me on!

Sometimes they can be but sometimes they are just not interested, at least not in giggling women who like to tease.

Yes, and the same are not interested in uptight men with a chip on their shoulder.

I am sorry but there is no bus route on that corner!

 

Aha! No worries--I have personal transportation.

Yep, just stand on the corner there, I'll be by to pick you up!

Possibly-ish...

Heehee, dig it! I went there-ish during the expo--long ago!

I usually tease men if i'm flirting. Can't help it. And giggle alot. Also can't help that. Men can be soo dense, though.

No the real pacific southwest, BC!

Oh, like vancouver-ish?