Isabella7898

Op also said she got pregnant early February and then another comment she said 1-16… which is it?

She hasn’t mentioned once how happy she is over this, but sure has no issue mentioning that he makes six figures. Lol you’re a man so I wouldn’t expect you to know the first thing about how a woman thinks, her motives, her intentions etc, and certainly being pregnant…. saying I have a jaded past is ignorant since I don’t. I’m a female I know how women think, sinister or not. The red flags are present. I’m sure they could have bought condoms while on vacation. She asked or opinions on if this situation is weird, and yes I do think it is. I can almost guarantee someone else will think the same thing. Co workers, family members, this forum. If nobody in her real life doesn’t then good for her. But she asked and I told the truth of how it looks to me. She should be aware that others could possibly think this same thing.

I’m not trying to be all negative upon her and her situation… I just see a lot of disappointment and heartache in her future and possibly raising this child alone if this was her intent. I’ve unfortunately seen this happen way too many times and it never ends well. she needs to really look at the next 9 months and year or so at how her life is about to change. what if he ends up leaving like he did the others? Does she want this baby even if it means having it all alone? She needs to think about that… I’m not encouraging abortion or adoption but for her to really come to reality of a life and baby with a 50 year old man. You know once people move in together it all changes, is she ready for that?

She hasn’t been to the doctor yet; and I know it takes a bit to get into a first appointment… she doesn’t even know if the pregnancy is viable, or for all she knows she could be having twins. I have never in my life heard of anyone doing a registry as soon as the test was positive. So yes, something is odd about this. I do feel it was intentional. Not necessarily to trap him, but cmon… you knew the man for 6 mos and has unprotected sex, have signed up registries already, supposedly the whole family already knows…. Ya red flag. I’ve seen this happen too many times to call it normal. This was intention, I can tell by her responses. First pregnancy ever and with a man who has multiple kids… wants to marry him to make things right bc he got turned down by his ex having his baby (which is ex…. red flag again…

Judgmental or not that’s my opinion… trying to trap a man with a pregnancy is an awful thing to do, and I do feel she’s doing that.

Usually people wait till the 12 week mark to make sure no miscarriage. and she hasn’t said whether she has even been to the doctor yet to hear the heartbeat etc but has rushed to do registries. 🚩 I get the “I did this one purpose vibe” with this whole thread. I feel she got pregnant on purpose. Why not use birth control when the man is clearly fertile. And rushing registries before confirming the baby is actually ok is weird.

Wow… you’re only about 9 weeks pregnant and you have already set up baby registries? Why the rush? Have you been to a doctor yet?