graceadamaie5

I do think I am a bit afraid of dating firstly because I haven’t done it before and also I don’t want to get my heart broken and end up moping around at uni and flopping all my classes which is what happened to my mum.

Honestly that makes a lot of sense. Thank you so much to you and everyone else who replied!

I know that this might all sound really dumb but it's just hard for me since this is the first time something like this has happened. And I don't really want to go asking my friends to psychoanalyse what's wrong with me.

But the thing is, I didn't make it apparent that I was jealous of this girl I acted completely normal. I also feel like I didn't really act in a way that would allude to me liking him as more than friends in the first place so I don't think he would be very confused. I guess I am a pretty jealous person on this inside but I don't EVER show it. I just don't know why I lost feelings for him when I actually found out that he liked me back.

I kind of just rambled on about not being ready for a relationship right now - this is my first time being asked out like this so I had no clue what to say.

I met this guy 3 weeks ago at my first lecture for one of my classes. We ended up sitting next to each other from then on and we would text frequently and sometimes played pool at our uni after class. For the first 2 weeks I felt nothing but friendship for him but when he texted me something and mentioned another girl in it - I felt strangely weird. I didn’t know what to think because I thought I only liked him as a friend but in that instance, I felt jealous of a girl he had merely mentioned. The next day we had class together again and I kept thinking about him and then came to the conclusion that I might like him as more than a friend. But then to my complete shock, after class he asked me out. In that moment, everything that I thought I felt for him vanished and I pretty much rejected him. Im just not understanding why all my feelings went away the moment I realised they were reciprocated??