BabyBluePorsche
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I never said he’s specifically stalking me, I asked about the behavior specifically. You’re taking my words too literally and my click bait title too seriously. No, I don’t think hes stalking me, but do not know how to perceive the behavior, which is fine, because it’s not a normal behavior. Put yourself in my shoes as to if some random person set their items up at the exit door as you were trying to leave. And if that wouldn’t concern you, well, makes me think you’d be the type to do something like that.
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Oh brother, imagine arguing this silly point. What are you out to prove? That I’m deranged myself? I can only imagine since you didn’t take a joke I mentioned seriously how literal you’re taking this. Second, yes it does. My gym is very small. We all use the same small parking lot so it’s quite easy to see who’s coming and leaving and you have to drive past the door to leave the area. This is all a 3-4 minute process. He was leaving as I was pulling off. Quite an easy process to see and most of the time I sit in my car a few minutes anyway after leaving, as does he. Stop trying to gaslight me into feeling a specific way about my response because if you’re are trying to prove me to be a stalker, he is indeed one too! Just strengthening my argument.
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So if someone is telling you they got molested and included a detail in there that made it seem like they asked for it, you will then shift the blame onto the victim? What a gaslight. Nowhere in my post was I rude or accusatory towards him I just asked for clarification not to deal with someone saying “well maybe you’re the stalker” well if I’m the stalker he’s an absolute nut job!
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So is setting up your *** at the exit for your gym crush to trip over. And if the roles were reversed, they wouldn’t be because I’d never do that. It’s funny because it takes me about 3 minutes to get to my car and leave so technically I didn’t wait for him, but I did want clarification as to why he was putting his crap near the exit. But of course, we have people like you who like to gaslight people for voicing concern. What a world we live in.
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First of all, he left right after me. It was not like I was waiting an extended amount of time for him to leave. Calling me a stalker for trying to figure out why someone intentionally blocked the exit while I was trying to leave and get an explanation on it? Weird. I didn’t say I wasn’t flattered I’d just think if I did this myself, my ideology is someone I’m completely obsessed with.
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I’m stalking him is a laugh..I wanted clarity on why he set up at the exit, hun. I’m allowed to have that before I jumped to conclusions. Also, I’ve been going to the gym for 5 years now, and I know for a fact most guys in there are petrified of approaching women in there. And frankly, I could care less about if he was doing it to some other girl. I’m speaking for my experience. If a molester molests one girl are you gonna say “well he probably molests plenty of other girls” to discredit her experience? Typical.
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Meaning, I thought of a reason he’d do that that had nothing to do with me. I know when people write stuff like this people like to tell them “well maybe it was a coincidence” so I thought that maybe he just randomly decided to set all of his items up at the exit of the gym, wait until I left to leave as well and leave with no one else, and I haven’t found an explanation 🤪
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So about 3 weeks ago a guy at my gym took interest in me. But ive noticed some of the things hes done are kind of very interesting.. -On the first day he pretty much followed me around the gym and was on every machine next to mine and was looking at me periodically. Like, i know that’s common. -On the way out he set up his items at the exit to the point I had to step over them to leave, and he just stood there. It was quite late so there weren’t a lot of people there and it’s a small gym so he could get away with it. -Once I left, I waited for him to leave to see if he was leaving with someone and he left 3 minutes later, alone. He had no real reason to do that and never did it again. And I overthought it to oblivion. I don’t know if this means anything of his character. Usually guys follow me around a bit in the gym but I’ve never had a guy go to this extreme to set up at the exit of the gym. We didn’t communicate because I’m quite shy and if I’m there and he’s there he will sometimes follow me around still the machines. He’s cute but I am nervous of the behavior lol..just shy or obsessive?