BabyBluePorsche

It’s fine. It’s so easy for people to talk the most bull under the shadow of anonymity. I’ve taken none of it personal except the actual helpful responses 😁

I never said he’s specifically stalking me, I asked about the behavior specifically. You’re taking my words too literally and my click bait title too seriously. No, I don’t think hes stalking me, but do not know how to perceive the behavior, which is fine, because it’s not a normal behavior. Put yourself in my shoes as to if some random person set their items up at the exit door as you were trying to leave. And if that wouldn’t concern you, well, makes me think you’d be the type to do something like that.

I didn’t misquote anything, I just confused you with the other annoyingly dense person on this thread. My apologies.

And shame doesn’t work on people who aren’t ashamed. If I felt ashamed doing it, I wouldn’t have mentioned it.

I just simply wanted an explanation as to why he was blocking the exit or just standing at the exit. If he was leaving with someone it would be more believable as to why he was waiting around and I’d not continue to think about if I could approach this guy if he’s with a girl.

Oh brother, imagine arguing this silly point. What are you out to prove? That I’m deranged myself? I can only imagine since you didn’t take a joke I mentioned seriously how literal you’re taking this. Second, yes it does. My gym is very small. We all use the same small parking lot so it’s quite easy to see who’s coming and leaving and you have to drive past the door to leave the area. This is all a 3-4 minute process. He was leaving as I was pulling off. Quite an easy process to see and most of the time I sit in my car a few minutes anyway after leaving, as does he. Stop trying to gaslight me into feeling a specific way about my response because if you’re are trying to prove me to be a stalker, he is indeed one too! Just strengthening my argument.

Youre right.

So if someone is telling you they got molested and included a detail in there that made it seem like they asked for it, you will then shift the blame onto the victim? What a gaslight. Nowhere in my post was I rude or accusatory towards him I just asked for clarification not to deal with someone saying “well maybe you’re the stalker” well if I’m the stalker he’s an absolute nut job!

So is setting up your *** at the exit for your gym crush to trip over. And if the roles were reversed, they wouldn’t be because I’d never do that. It’s funny because it takes me about 3 minutes to get to my car and leave so technically I didn’t wait for him, but I did want clarification as to why he was putting his crap near the exit. But of course, we have people like you who like to gaslight people for voicing concern. What a world we live in.

First of all, he left right after me. It was not like I was waiting an extended amount of time for him to leave. Calling me a stalker for trying to figure out why someone intentionally blocked the exit while I was trying to leave and get an explanation on it? Weird. I didn’t say I wasn’t flattered I’d just think if I did this myself, my ideology is someone I’m completely obsessed with.

No, he was blocking the exit. There was no need for him to organize his stuff because he had just come from the locker room. I had to step over his items because he had them laid out over the exit path, then he had to move out of the way. It was obviously intentional

While I agree he has the right to use it as much as I do, he does not have the right to block the exit while I am leaving intentionally even if it is to flirt. Fair use does not translate to “I can bother others if they are also in the space” I hope you are not meaning that.

It was a joke, geez…

I’m stalking him is a laugh..I wanted clarity on why he set up at the exit, hun. I’m allowed to have that before I jumped to conclusions. Also, I’ve been going to the gym for 5 years now, and I know for a fact most guys in there are petrified of approaching women in there. And frankly, I could care less about if he was doing it to some other girl. I’m speaking for my experience. If a molester molests one girl are you gonna say “well he probably molests plenty of other girls” to discredit her experience? Typical.

Well I thought he was waiting on someone initially but he wasn’t. Then I thought maybe he was just doing a sacrificial ritual in the exit hallway that required him to spread out all of his belongings, and summon Cthulhu from the underworld to do his eternal bidding, but I ruled that out too.